In the parent thread, Eagle 732 asks who gets to decide which rules are immoral, impractical, or just ridiculous, a 12 year old boy?
Here's an example of the kind of "rule" I'm thinking about.
At summer camp it was very hot. People were sweating profusely. Adults were constantly reminding the Scouts to drink water.
At one meal, at the close of the meal, the program director got up and told everyone, whether they had already had plenty of water or not, to fill up their cup with water, and that we'd all drink another cup together.
As an adult, I can make a reasoned judgment about whether this may lead to hyponatremia, or whether I believe that our evolutionarily defined sense of thirst is somehow fundamentally defective. The youth, on the other hand, can pretty much tell if they are already overly full of water. I'm sure at some table the adults had already been encouraging the youth to drink up plenty.
So some youth decided not to follow this rule. Even 12-year-old boys could decide whether it really made sense for them to drink another cup full of water.
Should we tell them that they need to follow the rule for now, but that they should advocate for a change within the system?
Should we proceed with open "civil disobedience", jump up on a table, and shout out, "I don't believe that's a good rule and I'm not going to follow it."?
Or do we just silently ignore the rule for those cases where it doesn't really apply?
If you think it's ok to use your judgment on whether to follow this rule, what is the distinction about which rules you get to use your judgment on and which rules you don't? (And ok, maybe this is an "order", not a "rule", but the rule would be that you have to follow directions from the program director.)
Here's an example of the kind of "rule" I'm thinking about.
At summer camp it was very hot. People were sweating profusely. Adults were constantly reminding the Scouts to drink water.
At one meal, at the close of the meal, the program director got up and told everyone, whether they had already had plenty of water or not, to fill up their cup with water, and that we'd all drink another cup together.
As an adult, I can make a reasoned judgment about whether this may lead to hyponatremia, or whether I believe that our evolutionarily defined sense of thirst is somehow fundamentally defective. The youth, on the other hand, can pretty much tell if they are already overly full of water. I'm sure at some table the adults had already been encouraging the youth to drink up plenty.
So some youth decided not to follow this rule. Even 12-year-old boys could decide whether it really made sense for them to drink another cup full of water.
Should we tell them that they need to follow the rule for now, but that they should advocate for a change within the system?
Should we proceed with open "civil disobedience", jump up on a table, and shout out, "I don't believe that's a good rule and I'm not going to follow it."?
Or do we just silently ignore the rule for those cases where it doesn't really apply?
If you think it's ok to use your judgment on whether to follow this rule, what is the distinction about which rules you get to use your judgment on and which rules you don't? (And ok, maybe this is an "order", not a "rule", but the rule would be that you have to follow directions from the program director.)



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